While doing a bit of web surfing for any possible information about Ace Frehley's family for my KISS Album Focus "Pre-KISStory" article, particularly
about his brother Charley who had, according to Dale Sherman's Black Diamond book, musical connections with his brother, I came across a site for "The
Bridge Band". The brief bio of the band caught my attention, "Charley grew up in a family in which music was always encouraged, especially singing in his
church choir. Charley chose music as his major and was part of the 60's college folk scene. As a teen he played in bands with his brother Paul, now known
as 'Ace' Frehley of KISS fame" (TheBridgeBand.com). I let Mike, at KISSONLINE know, because it made a very interesting piece of KISS Konnectivity -
something which would interest fans. With that I knew that it would make an interesting conversation to talk to a man who shared a common interest, with
his brother Paul "Punky" Frehley, and a man who was now making his own music. What I would like to make clear to the fans is that I approached
interviewing Charley as a musician in his own right, not as the brother of so-and-so, so I guess you can expect that I did not ask if "Ace did this or
that", or similar. Those so inclined should check out the marvelous Bridge CD for a taste of different music than you might be used to from a Frehley.
Thus, let me introduce you to 'The Other Side Of The Coin', Charley Frehley:
[Introductions] Charlie briefly discussed his current job and some recent promotions that are going to lead to interesting and challenging developments
in his working (non-music) life.
Charles [CF]: ... I still find time for music.
Julian Gill [JG]: I hope so, you've got to!
[CF]: I spoke with Michael when he first emailed us and we discussed the link into KISSONLINE and that's been going very well. We've been getting a lot
of activity as a result. It's a really nice thing.
[JG]: I hope the activity you're getting isn't the result of people expecting you to be the mirror image of your brother?
[CF]: Yeah, but that's the thing, I'm 'the other side of the coin'. That's how I always described it. You know, Paul [Ed. Ace's real name is Paul Frehley]
and me, we're two sides of the coin: He does the hard stuff and I do the easy stuff! However, I'm getting more into up-beat. I've been a songwriter,
trying to go professional - haven't had a lot of luck. Haven't really pushed it as much as I should have. In fact I've just finished a recording for a
song that's going to be in the hand's of Marc Anthony by the weekend. I've got a friend who knows one of his relatives and he's facilitating that. And I
wrote my first Spanish ballad with Flamenco guitar and Spanish lead. It came out so great. It starts off in English. My wife is Puerto Rican, so she
translated the verse and chorus into Spanish, and we wrote another little Spanish verse. It starts out in English, starts out with a slow section, nice
easy flowing, you know, finger picking. And then it goes into a Flamenco strum with Spanish lead and the singing is very powerful and punchy. It's about
the games people play with each other. That's the subject in terms of where they argue and such. You know, every time you can see the song in your head,
you ain't sure that it's going to sound that good or that way when it gets onto tape. And when it does, it's really cool... and it's going to get to Marc
by the weekend. And if he doesn't want it, that's OK. He's my first pick for the song, but there's a lot of Spanish artists looking for music. A lot of
guys trying to cross over the way he did. So there'll be a lot of people I'll shop it around to. That's a great song.
[JG]: Well good luck to you with that.
[CF]: I believe in what I do more than I have in the past and that's the first thing you need to do...
[JG]: That's the big step to take...
[CF]: I have a 27 year old daughter, and she's been writing poetry and short stories since her early teens. She showed me her poem yesterday, called
"Growing Pains", it's going to appear in a published collection of poems that's coming out this spring. The poem was an experience for me. It was a
relatively short poem, maybe ten or twelve lines, but each line was rather lengthy. But it had a flow to it and the only way I can describe it was that
I felt like I was on a swing in the backyard, hooked to a tree branch, and I was just swinging back and forth. And the rhymes came out of nowhere. The
way she constructed the ideas, it's an amazing poem. And she has like 75 or 80 of them. That she's written, and I was like show me more of these please!
It's nice, you know, I'm at a point in my life where I'm 51, I've been married for 30 years, I've got a great marriage, I've got two great kids. You
know, my son, he's into techno music and he's an incredible keyboardist. And he's getting to be an incredible drummer. I was listening to him play in
the house the other night... I mean it's really loud and it really drives me crazy on one level, but he's getting, his timing in terms of the licks he
does on the drums is just getting frighteningly good. It's the whole family - the apples don't fall far from the tree, look at Ace. My father was an
amazing classical pianist, my older sister, an amazing classical pianist - she could have gone to Julliard. She went to Hunter High School in Manhattan,
was really smart and had a great average, and she was studying piano during that period. After three years she was playing Mozart piano sonatas, and she
was playing them brilliantly, like way before you're supposed to be able to do that. She probably could have gone to Julliard, but she decided to study
something else, and then she became a housewife. She sings, and has a great voice... But talent all over the place. And my son, he got a major share. He's
just all music - 21 year's old. The world is his oyster, he's just ready to go, and he's just got it all. I'm going to start working on some projects
with him soon. I have an Ovation guitar that I bought in 1968 that I still play and it's a deep body Ovation guitar. You know how all Ovation guitars
have a plastic back, originally they had a smooth surface on them, and then sometime in the 70's they switched to a roughened surface. But my guitar is
a deep bodied Ovation and it's like a classical styled guitar. It's called the Josh White model.
[JG]: I'd like to congratulate you on your Bridge CD, and I read a review that said that the bridge, "give you a collection of twelve songs that can be
described as music, as pure as you can get. The notes come out of your speakers, crisp and clear as a summer breeze". Is that the aim of your music, an
artistic purity, or it simply a fortunate expression of yourself?
[CF]: We write from the heart. We write very slowly and methodically, and over the years we have developed a relationship in terms of our music, the way
our guitars sound. You know, for example, in "Julie Y", Jerry plays the first part of the recurring sequence, and then I come in with the other half. It
"breathes", we have a very similar finger style, but we always try and create a diversity in what we do in terms of the arrangements. He'll capo up high
and catch the high notes, and I'll play open or capo down low, so we broaden the range of what we're doing. But we're always looking to do something
inventive and interesting, and something that's going to sound nice musically between our guitars and voices. We're both old ex-Choir boys, Jerry almost
got chosen for the Vienna Boy's Choir, and from the time I was 8 or 9 years old I was singing solos in the junior choir in church, and then in the
senior. And I sang solos in my college course, so we both have a good solid musical background, but we both have a great feeling for harmony. And those
are the elements that we put into out music.
[JG]: That really came across. I gave the CD a couple of listens so far, and was thinking Peter, Paul, and Mary, very similar in the harmonizing, and
of course Simon and Garfunkel.
[CF]: I learned how to play guitar listening to those people. Mid 60's, by 1965, I was 15 years old, and I was sitting and listening to Paul Simon's
stuff and figuring out the songs. The first song I ever figured out for myself was a Peter, Paul and Mary song, one of their old traditional folk songs.
And that's how I got my chops, I just started working. I never took lessons. I had played piano and understood something about music, and I just wanted
to do it on my own. I just took the music of the day and used it as a basis for teaching myself how to play. And I just grew with it. And then I studied
classical guitar for like four years, and studied music. Jerry and I both have families and kids, and we both did music back in the 60's, and kind of
lost our way with it, and just got into working and taking care of our families and just playing on our own. And then we stumbled upon each other in
'94 and the rest we made happen.
[JG]: And before '94 were you just not doing much music or was it just around the house pick up the guitar?
[CF]: I was working with a guy in the early 80's and he was a copy-writer for a big ad agency, a rich guy. He had his own personal problems, but we
tried to work together. He was doing the lyrics with me doing the music. But it was just such a weird situation. He got involved in drugs and stuff.
He was one of these guys involved in things he shouldn't be doing and I was kind of caught in the middle of it and I just ended up bailing out. That
was the only attempt that might have generated some type of activity for songwriting for me. Other than that, I'm a working man. I take care of my
family, spend time with my wife. I've got a good relationship with her. Everything's nice and solid in my life and now I'm addressing the music. And
I have the self-confidence just to go out there and just do it. I've got a lot of songs that I've written as much as ten years ago which I'm going to
start recording and try to get published and get to people. All different types of music.
[JG]: Now the material on the Bridge CD, how long had that been in the works? Was that strictly just you and Jerry, since '94?
[CF]: That's me and Jerry. He writes a song and then brings it to me, and then we work out the arrangement. I work out my guitar part and harmony and
vice-versa. Occasionally we have worked on songs and written songs together, but we don't do that as a general rule. But we develop the songs slowly and
we just make sure that they are a style that is uniquely ours. And also that the songs say something. Like the song "I Can Only Hope It's So", he wrote
that about children and the questions that they ask. I wrote the song "All Around" about the environment as we should all have concerns about the
environment. I have fantasies about one day playing that song at the Rain Forest concert 'cause it would fit perfectly with the theme of that, but who
am I? I'm not James Taylor and all the big names that play there... If you listen to the words it touches on everything from the rain forest, the ozone
depletion, and all those things, but it's done in a nice musical format. I love music and I love writing, and I love making my own stuff sound beautiful,
but also have a relevance. Which you don't always find in a lot of popular music. It seems to work for us.
[JG]: And is that the aim of your music, to have a "message", but to be very musical, very pure?
[CF]: Many of our songs are exactly that. We're trying to express an idea and make a comment on something. That is important to us. Others are just
observational kinds of things. Like "Millstones, Barrows, and Porch Swings", observations of life compared to visuals. Jerry got the idea for that when
we were driving up to the All Folks Festival in Kingston, Ontario, that we played at in 1997. We were driving through upstate New York and he would see
a house, and in front of the house would be a wheel-barrow. And it's been converted into a planter. That wheel-barrow used to have a job, used to have a
function. But now it has a new function, which is different, but not necessarily any better or worse. And the same thing happens to people, as they get
older what they do changes.
[JG]: A good metaphor...
[CF]: That's a wonderful song, and we named the CD after that. That cover art was done by Jerry's sister who's a professional artist, I'm sure there's a
credit on the cover [Ed. There is: Cover art by Lucy Taylor]. She teaches at local colleges, and also does shows at art galleries, and she did that as a
mock up. Just a quick idea of what we wanted. When she actually did the final rendition, we liked the mock up better, so that's what we stayed with.
There's talent all over the place... We've been having a good time, and we've just been trying to get noticed... And I'm getting emails from all kinds of
KISS fans saying "I never knew Ace had a brother", and "I can't wait to get your CD", that's what a lot of them say...
[JG]: A lot of them may be in for a shock!
[CF]: A lot of these people who were diehard KISS fans when they were 15 in the 70's are now maybe 40. And a lot of people's musical taste does mellow
a bit. The nostalgia connected to the KISS music of the 70's is something they still strongly relate to, but maybe these days their tastes in general
have changed. As a matter of fact a few emails I got made reference to exactly that. Our music doesn't speak to a teenage crowd. It speaks to people who
are more thoughtful and have some sort of life experience because I'm 51 and Jerry's a few years younger, and we draw from our life experience in these
songs and if you don't have that there's not a lot you can connect with. We're just doing the best we can, but we're getting noticed in some ways and it
may end up opening up some doors.
[JG]: So, where were you born [Ed. I've read Bronx and Brooklyn, so wanted clarification]?
[CF]: Paul and I were both born and raised in the Bronx. My mother just moved to [] because she's elderly. My father passed away last March, and she
stayed until the end of July when we found and assisted living place very close to my sister. Out there the assisted living places are much more
reasonably priced than they are in New York City and it just worked out better. She's living out there and she's doing wonderfully. I'm so happy for
her, because she took care of my father in his declining years. The past four or five years where he ended up becoming a total invalid.
[JG]: That would have been tough.
[CF]: That was very stressful for her, for anybody, to spend 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, taking care of him. And having home help aids come in.
It was hard for her, very hard for her. And I was there all the time helping her and supporting her. And then he finally passed, very quietly and
calmly, he just stopped breathing, one Tuesday afternoon back in March. But she's very happy now. She's got activities to be involved in. She has
friends at this assisted living place. She loves it there. And interestingly enough, one of the kitchen helpers noticed her name, Esther Frehley,
and being a diehard KISS fan this woman inquired and when she found out that Ace's mother had just moved in to this facility she went ballistic! First
of all my mother invited her in, because my mother's the sweetest, dearest person you'd ever want to meet. And she had all the pictures on the walls.
The family shots from their 50th wedding anniversary with Paul and his wife and all of these family things. And she ended up telling people about it
and bringing people knocking on my mothers door. In a very nice way, and they didn't stay long, and I said, "Mom, be careful", because it could get
completely out of control. She would just bring people in and they would meet her and they would look at the pictures and just be awed and fascinated.
She had lived in New York, her whole life, since the age of 21 and she was relocated at the age of 80, to a place that was totally unfamiliar to her.
And this process of this woman doing this in fact made her feel so comfortable, because everyone then knew her, and everyone knew about her, and
everyone would say "hello" to her. And she would say to me, "Charlie, everyone's so friendly and nice to me", and it just allowed her to make the
transition in an effortless kind of way. So I really thank Paul for that, that his fame was able get her feeling comfortable in this new environment.
My sister's just five minutes away, and is there every day, and her daughter just gave birth, so she has a great-grandson to watch grow up. She's very
happy.
[JG]: What's the alleged 'German' connection with your family? Did your parents emigrate to the US or was it an earlier generation?
[CF]: Well, my father was born in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania. His family was Dutch. My Mother's father moved here around the turn of the century and there
is a book that outlines the entire history of the town that my mother grew up in. It's a town called Norlina, North Carolina, and about ten years ago
someone put together the entire history of the town which included my Grandfather Robert Hecht, who came over here with his brother. My grandfather, his
family in Germany were so rich that there was a special word in German to describe them, and I don't know what the German word is. But that's how rich
that Hecht family was. And the deal was that my Grandfather was supposed to marry a woman for political or economic reasons, was not interested in doing
that, so he just left and came to America with his brother. My mother was the youngest of, I believe, seven children, and there was a book that has
photographs and the entire history of the town... We used to go there every summer for two weeks and stay at different Aunt and Uncle's houses. I'd just
feel like a farm boy for two weeks. Paul and I would do that. We'd cut corn and I'd throw bales of hay on the truck. It was just totally relaxed farm
life of the late 1950's and early 60's, totally different from living in the Bronx.
[JG]: You are Ace's older brother, and have a sister Nancy, what's the age split?
[CF]: I'm a year older than Paul, and Nancy is six years older than him.
[JG]: It's often been said that your parents had a musical household, in what way, and how was music a part of your family life growing up?
[CF]: My father played piano all the time. He had studied classical music for many years. He had planned on being a professional musician, but the
depression hit and his mother got ill and he was a student at Lehigh University in Pennsylvania, and I believe he had to drop out of school to come
home to take care of his ailing mother. He never finished graduating and he was never able to pursue his musical dream. But he was also an incredible
mathematician and engineer and he was just great with numbers. He ended up making a living as an engineer winding various types of motors and designing
transformers and motors for various companies. He worked for elevator companies for many years doing all their work. An elevator motor burns out, bring
it to Carl, he fixes it, and it runs forever. He was just very very good at what he did and he worked until he was 84 years old winding elevator motors...
The only reason he stopped doing it was that the company moved out of the city - they moved from the Bronx up to Pelham, which is right across the
northern border of New York City and the building they were moving into did not allow for space for a mechanic's shop, so he was just out of the
picture. So he needed a job. One of the customers of this company offered an 84 year old engineer a job, unfortunately they could only find a space
in the basement, and he was unwilling to work all day in a place that had no windows or ventilation and he ended up retiring. And gradually, within a
few years, his health began to decline, and then one hospital stay led to another, and then he had a minor stroke. And then he was in his upper 80's. We
had a snowstorm and he lived a good 2 miles from where he worked and he walked there, in the snow to get to work, and he was 83, because you don't miss
a day of work. He was born in 1903... there was only one way to do it, he'd tell me, the right way.
[CF]: Jerry and I are on top of things, we try to be good husbands and good parents and good workers, and everything works out. We don't find many
obstacles. The only real obstacle we've had has been trying to promote ourselves in a way that's going to get us some attention. I've never thought of
utilizing my brother for that. He's never approached me with really wanting to do that or been receptive to the idea. He does what he does, and I do
what I do.
[JG]: I guess it's nice when the 'other side' come knocking wanting to talk to you and hear about you and your music because it's been well known
for a while that you played guitar, that there's a rumor that you used to give Paul some lessons early on?
[CF]: We learned how to play guitar together. Right around 1964/5, when the Beatles were just doing everything, just turning music around. Everyone
wanted to grow their hair long and play guitar so Paul and I both did that around the same time. It's just my orientation was to learn chords and learn
how to strum, and he right away, he didn't want to deal with chords, he just wanted to pick out the notes and turn the volume on the amp all the way
up to the top. That's all he wanted to do. Even before he could really play, that's all he wanted to do! We all went through some growing pains, my
ears are still a little sore from that! But he learned quick and within a year he was so, without lessons, proficient. It was just amazing. There was
this one song we played by this group The Blues Magoos, they had a song, "We Ain't Got Nothing Yet", and there was this little guitar instrumental part
[raising scale], and after one year, self-taught, he nailed that perfectly. He was like 15 years old and he was playing with that kind of dexterity.
Just natural talent. And then between Eric Clapton and Jimmy Page, and all those guys that became so popular in the late sixties... He was in bands
playing all their music and he just developed his chops using them as a baseline and then he just developed his own style. He had great music to
learn from and it was just a great time in music when there was a lot of great stuff being produced.
[JG]: The British Invasion...
[CF]: He was covering all of them, just playing in bands with 17/18 year old guys, playing at high school dances. He was playing Clapton music, stuff
from Cream, and Zeppelin stuff. It was all covers. But it taught him the subtleties of rhythm and was a good school to go to!
[JG]: Now, were you ever in bands with him?
[CF]: Yeah, a couple, very early on when we were still in high school together. We were in a band called the Micro Organism, what can I tell you! That's
what it was called. And we didn't gig much, we just actually practiced for a while and then it just kind of fell apart. We were just young kids. I was
like 16, Paul was 15. I brought him in to play lead, and a drummer, a friend I knew from my school. It was just kid's stuff. But I'd already seen that
Paul was really on his way to being a great great guitar player. That's all he wanted to do. He said, "I'm gonna make it, I'm gonna make it". And he
just stuck with it. I stuck with it in the sense that I was going to school, I went to college, and I ended up switching my major from physics to music.
And I took a full time music curriculum for two years at Bronx Community College, and I graduated with a two year associate degree in music. I studied
classical guitar and had to do frequent recitals. I passed the curriculum with no problem because music was just easy for me. And then I went to City
College and I got almost up to the end of my senior year but financial pressures and my daughter was a couple of years old, it was 1975 when I dropped
out before I finished. I got up within 12 credits of a BA. But a lot of responsibilities and it was a hard time for money, and I just couldn't handle
the workload.
[JG]: In the early days, did you ever run into Larry and Sue Kelly?
[CF]: I knew him and he was Paul's lead singer for a good long time... I can't really remember the name of the band [Ed. Some of Ace's early bands
included The Exterminators, The Four Roses, Muff Divers, Honey & The Magic People]. But I remember going to many gigs and hanging out with Larry.
[JG]: Now, once Ace got into bands like Molimo, did you ever get to hear any of that material?
[CF]: I went to see him at the Village Gate play with Molimo one time and it was a soft sort of band, kind of reminiscent of Spanky & Our Gang with a
female lead singer. That poppy kind of sound. Paul would play lead on some songs, he would play acoustic on other songs. He was always into ballsey
heavy metal. Zeppelin was the ultimate. That kind of thing you see with KISS, the punchy strong rock rhythms that he could play his wailing lead
guitar to. So Molimo really didn't cut it for him. It was just something to do until the opportunity came along. And that was when he saw the ad in
the paper... He went to the loft on 23rd Street and the rest was history.
[JG]: Did you ever see KISS?
[CF]: Oh yeah, sure, over the years many times. Back in the 70's the limo would pick us up and we'd be treated like royalty. And we'd go to the
pre-concert catered gig, and afterwards there was always a party. We had one party in a health club on East 56th Street - they rented out the whole
health club for the party and we were sitting around the pool. They once rented out a ballet school somewhere off 5th Avenue somewhere in the 70's
between 5th and Madison. This really post, beautiful building, with high ceilings, so we had the KISS after-concert party there. It was a lot of fun.
[JG]: Apparently your father gave Ace his first guitar on his 14th birthday...
[CF]: I guess that would be that Zimgar starburst that he had. It had terrible action, it was awful. I think the first real good guitar he got was a
knock-off on a Stratocaster, that wasn't a Fender, but another brand. Ultimately, it was Les Paul all the way. When he saw Jimmy Page playing a Les
Paul and Eric Clapton playing a Les Paul, that was it. He would always get his guitars and take them a part, he would d take out the pickups and look
at everything, and understand how everything worked, and then he'd put them back together again. Then he'd take day glow paint. He was an artist. He
told me in the 80's that he was thinking about publishing some of his computer graphics stuff. But he would always take his guitars, and using day glow
paint, he would just paint them. And we'd have black lights and the guitars would glow. He was always into art.
[JG]: How often do you gig with 'The Bridge'?
[CF]: We play locally in Borders Books and Barnes & Noble frequently. We've been recently working on material and we're starting to schedule gigs.
April's all filled up. We have one showcase in March. Right now we're spending time contacting new venues in our area. There's a place called the
Minstrel Coffee House in New Jersey which is a very nice venue, which some big names play out of on a regular basis. It's a well run organization.
We've approached them and we're going to be trying to at least start as an opening act there. And maybe there's some KISS fans in New Jersey interested
in coming to see us.
[JG]: Since I don't want to take up your whole day, what are your plans for the Bridge?
[CF]: We want people to hear our music, because we think that there's lot to offer in our music. My partner's trying to get us noticed . Through
the KISS website, and generating some activity. This might translate into some KISS fans coming to our shows. We're doing a showcase at Sam Goody's
Store in Roosevelt Field on Long Island on March 17th. We're looking to make some appearances on some local Television shows. Ace has a brother who
plays a totally different sort of music. There's this connection, that might be a point of interest.
I'd like to give thanks to Charley for taking the time to talk about his music, his family, and his and his brother's youth. If you'd like to check out
more information about the Bridge band, visit their website at http://www.thebridgeband.com/ where you can
find out more about the band's live dates. The CD is available from:
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